When I feel upset, I listen to the music and the sadness disappear. Sometimes I have a long walk, it lets me think.
Have a nice day June !
Hello Lucia! :)
When I feel upset, I listen to music and the sadness disappears.
Sometimes I have a long walk, it helps me to think.
Many people do this, Lucia. I think music has a very powerful influence on us. Certainly peaceful music is very calming to the nerves.
I don't know where we would be without music!
Thank you for your contribution, Lucia! :)
We would probably still be savages, sleeping in caves and going 'dohh! grunt grunt duh-duh! to each other! :) :)
I prefer to stay alone,I don't know why and I know that it's not a good solution for my problems but what can I do?
Hello Alaeddine, welcome! :)
I prefer to stay alone, I don't know why and I know it's not a good solution for my problems, but what can I do?
Well, firstly, Alaeddine, you are a man, and most men prefer to be alone when they have a problem. They retreat to their 'caves' (the recesses of their mind) to mull and brood over their problems.
Secondly, women tend to want to talk to someone about their problems - and they always find someone who will listen. By the time a couple of women have talked about their problems, had several cups of tea, and a packet of biscuits - problem solved or relief achieved with talking about it.
You see, Alaeddine, when you have problems it is always best to talk them over with a trusted friend or a complete stranger who you will never ever meet again! No on ever does any good or solves any problems on their own. They just get worse, your mind goes round and round, your imagination works over time, the problem gets bigger.....and you could end up with ulcers, or a migraine!
Don't let that happen to you Alaeddine!
Some of the girls here, including myself listen to music to calm them selves.
Do you listen to music - or does it make you sadder?
Thank you Alaeddine - I do hope you are not really burdened with problems!
I hope to see you again.
Thank you very much that's very kind from you to help me,of course I listen to music but not always I like the calm music it helps me to be calm in some bad situations that happen to me.
Thank you very much, that's very kind of you to help me.
Of course I listen to music, but but not always. I like the calm music, it helps me to be calm in some of the bad things that happen to me.
Oh Alaeddine, I am really sorry that you experience these bad situations, you should be happy at 17 years old.
Keep in touch, and thank you for writing in.
when I have a problem, I try to reflect myself about all the troubles around me and How to find the best way to resolve it. In other hand, when I'm sad, I like to read some books because it leads me to another word and I get distracted. At the same time I prefer to listening relax music ang sing as a crazy woman. :p Sometimes, I tell my problems to someone else, but she or he has to be my friend and I have to trust them.
Most of the time, my mom is always who makes me happy in those moments.
When I have a problem, I try to think about all the troubles around me and how to find the best way to resolve it.
On the other hand, when I'm sad, I like to read some books because reading leads me to another world and it distracts me from my problem.
At the same time, I prefer to listen to relaxing music and sing like a crazy woman. :P
Sometimes, I tell my problems to someone else, but she or he has to be my friend and I hae to trust them.
Most of the time it is my mom who always makes me happy in these moments when I am worried.
That is what moms are for, Josy! :)
You have many ways of coping with problems, which is good, but it is your mom who can cheer you up as only a mom can do.
You are a lucky young lady to have such a nice mom; but she is a lucky mom to have such a loving daughter!! :)
Thank you for your contribution, Josy.
You have done well and you have a very good vocabulary.
Who say that I have had any problems? Who? Me? No, I have never had any. Ha ha ha!
When I am in a such situation, I go to bed and try to sleep. If I can't sleep, I listen to the radio; it is a great company for me. There are some radio programes that distract me with their comments, music and jokes. When later I get up, it is probably that my trouble becomes less severe than it used to be.
Hello Magda! :)
Who says that I have any problems? Who? Me? No, I have never had any. Ha ha ha!
When I am in such a situation, I go to bed and try to sleep.
If I can't sleep, I listen to the radio; it is great company for me!
There are some radio programmes that distract me with their comments, music and jokes.
When I get up later, usually my trouble has become less severe than it was.
I think that it is best, if you can to go to bed and try to sleep or to distract youself with music, reading or the radio.
Because you can wake in a different frame of mind, very often you can awaken with the answer to what you are worrying about.
Thank you Magda for your contribution, you are very good.