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50 point list of the most helpful things in common for a successful partnership

1. Socio-economic family background
2. Intelligence
3. Education
4. Language skills
5. Role expectations for both partners within marriage
6. Views on power sharing in the family
7. Desired number of children
8. Desired time of family formation
9. Views on child rearing
10. Political
11. Views on smoking, alcohol and drugs
12. Intensity of contact with the parents and their families
13. Sense of humor
14. Punctuality
15. Reliability
16. Desire for verbal intimacy and ability to
17. Importance of conflict and solutions
16. Dealing with anger
19. Dealing with friendships with the opposite sex
20. Expected level of privacy and rules for their use
21. Level of ambition
22. Life goals
23. Attitudes to body weight and food
24. Religious and spiritual beliefs
25. Intensity of engagement in the community
26. Religious commitment in the family
27. Hobbies and interests
26. Favorite music
29. Energy Level
30. Sexual desire and sexual interests
31. Share of income, output, or, to be saved
32. How much money should be spent for what (clothes, holidays and so on)
33. How much money will be donated where
34. Level of risk in investments
35. Attitude to cleanliness - house, clothes, body, and so on
36. Disease management
37. Standards for health - when should you go to the doctor?
36. Interpersonal and social skills
39. Preferred intensity and nature of social life
40. Area, want to live in one
41. Size and style of the house
42. Furniture style
43. Preferred frequency and type of travel
44. Holiday activities
45. How to celebrate important holidays
46. How much you want to spend time together
47. Time of going to bed and getting up
46. Temperature in the house during the day and night
49. Activities during meal times (speeches, television and so on)
50. Favorite TV Shows